Meet Luly Martin
I’ve had some really tough moments in my life. As a result, I’ve experienced feelings of abandonment, guilt, shame, loss, disappointment, anger, hurt and self-sabotage.
My first really tough moment happened when I was three years old, when my Mom and Dad left South America for New York without me. We were not reunited until I arrived in Toronto five years later. Those years away from my parents was harsh. In my new life in Toronto, I had the excitement of learning a new language and culture, but I felt alone and uncertain.
The life I experienced without my parents during those years was traumatic and had a lasting impact. As a teenager I lacked confidence, and that’s when when the self-sabotage started.
I started drinking with my friends just to numb myself from all these uncomfortable feelings. As the years went by, my friends began settling into a normal life with relationships and careers, but I just kept floating from job to job. A romantic relationship didn’t feel like it was in the cards for me because of my long-standing trust issues. I didn’t know who I was or what I wanted.
When I finally admitted to myself that I was not happy, I made an intentional decision to look at new possibilities. My curiosity led me down a path that required perseverance and courage. I began reading inspiring books; started going to the gym. I discovered and understood the power of good food and embarked on a lifelong journey of personal development. I was able to really connect with myself and understand that everything I have been through is a part of who I am. I now appreciate that those tough moments have brought me clarity about who I am, what is important to me, and what I want in life.
This realization was when I was able to design a life of my own. I started my own business 21 years ago, I met my gorgeous love of my life 12 years ago, and of course, got my beautiful puppy six years ago (he will always be my puppy). I also share deep, genuine connections with my family and friends.
I share my story with you with the hope that it offers inspiration and the desire to find courage to align with your truth – to make purposeful decisions and create freedom to pave the way to exploration and success.
